10 Male Behaviors That Ruin Female Attraction
Santiago, Oct. 20 – When women are asked about what kills passion, it is surprising to note that their answers are very broad and cover the daily life of their partner. That is, not just attitudes in bed, but the time before, how was the day with him, how he behaves. These are the 10 turn-offs they identified as most important.
1. Neglect
And when we talk about this, we refer mainly to the absence of vanity, shabby clothes, poor hygiene, an excessive beard, stained teeth, etc. A man, whether handsome or not, should always be concerned about himself and his presence. If you fail to take care of yourself, you will be less able to take care of a relationship with a woman.
2. Poor Communication
This is a major issue for women. We do not appreciate men who speak with double meanings or use excessive slang. One who slurs their speech and uses very few words or filler words. Believe it or not, this is still part of the charm and presence or disappointment. However, if most of your answers are monosyllabic, it is even worse.
3. Gossip
Yes, that is a woman’s job! Seriously, we do not like men who are regulars at gossip, especially if the victim is a woman. Alliance, fellowship, whatever, never speak ill of a woman in front of us.
4. Excessive Alcohol Consumption
We are not referring to the social and moderate drinker, but to the one who every time we go out is dizzy, slurs his speech, cannot drive his car, or worse, insists on driving at all costs. The result? At least one crash while drunk on his resume. This, apart from being ultra turn-off, is ultra dangerous.
5. Lack of Helpfulness
If a man is one that does not move a finger and calls you to bring him a glass of water, then we are talking about a professional turn-off. One who believes that we are his slaves is far from attractive, and if he also criticizes how you do things, it is better to say goodbye. We want proactive men!
6. Selfishness
We are referring to when he wants sex, he demands it, finishes, and leaves. One who is always busy and believes himself to be an excellent lover. That makes you feel like a sex object and not the companion you are. This behavior is clearly anti-passion.
7. Messiness
How can one want to have sex if every article or thing you leave has to be collected from the floor? It is impossible for a woman to feel desire if she has to follow a man around, picking up his shirt, his shoes, glasses half full of drinks, towels on the floor, a wet floor, the toilet seat up, etc. No, it does not make us feel like doing anything.
8. Unhealthy Jealousy
Not those who are jealous in a cute way occasionally, but the obsessive kind, which is overwhelming and makes you suffer. If a man suffers from jealousy and also makes scenes, we suggest you leave. You are facing a total anti-passion.
9. Flirting… But With Another
There are men who believe it is ‘macho’ to walk around flirting with whomever, for whatever reason. And often, it is even in front of you. This, besides being a great disrespect and an attack on your self-esteem, is a perfect turn-off. That is, if after a scene of flirtation with a third party, he tries to have sex with you… Forget it!
10. Selective Hearing
If he does not listen, if he does not pay attention, if he does not have the decency to ask how your day was and wait for the answer… He is a turn-off man. It is impossible to light fires if you do not even have the basics, the kindling.